
- A Facebook Privacy Memoir Part I
Facebook is so lovely, you can learn about what your friends who you don’t have time to keep up with are doing, look at their pictures, watch some of their videos and generally cyber-stalk them with their permission. Opps, we call that ‘being social’ not stalking now. In the last few years people have really enhanced the art of the me-me using social networks such as Facebook under the guise of “maintaining transparency”. This does beg the question, how much is too much?

In the last year Facebook has come a long way when it comes to the privacy settings, and nearly everyone is hiding something from the general population so we do have a start for some security. If you want to be ubber technical about it, you can use friend lists and play with your privacy settings to create different views for each segment of your life, but who has time for this? Just like any system, add more complex controls and the users who should be using them the most will not.
I have used firewall graphical interfaces that are less complicated then the Facebook privacy settings. This is mostly due to the privacy settings for Facebook are not all in one place. There are the Privacy settings in the drop down, but then you have to customize your photo privacy settings in a whole different screen. Now add in the option to great groups for your contact and manage the settings by those groups as well. All of the technical minded people might think this is a piece of cake, but my aunt who isn’t that technical, can barely handle navigating from one profile to the next much less the privacy settings! Yet, she has no problem posting pictures, tagging me on the pictures, and sharing them with her friends.
As a Christopher Burgess wrote in his Cisco Security Blog about ‘Security – Who is Responsible’
“ When we wish to use an automobile, we are required to go through a number of steps even before we get the vehicle rolling. During the drive, we adhere to the rules of the road (drive on the appropriate side, use our signals, stop at red-lights, go when green, etc.). When the engine light illuminates, the brakes start to screech, or the steering pulls too far left, we take note and either perform the required maintenance or we take it to the garage shop for service. We correct. The mechanic isn’t sitting in the backseat providing telemetry surrounding your vehicle’s operation, and unless my grandmother is in your backseat, you’re probably not being told how to steer, accelerate or brake. You are responsible. All of these actions are the responsibility of the operator—the user. You, the user, will decide “How do I maintain my vehicle and operate it?” When you violate motor vehicle laws (and are caught), what occurs? You receive a ticket and tickets carry consequences. In the US the consequences might include a monetary fine, points on your license and, for some, a mandatory trip to court. With choices and actions come consequences.
In the online world, we have the same basic responsibilities for security as a driver has in the physical world for safety.”
The unfortunate fact is that there is no education on the do’s and don’t of social media for people such as my aunt, nor would millions of high school students who are competing for the largest friend list and posting every little moment of their life even listen it it was! So here are my two tips for Facebook and a link to Cracked’s 10 Commandments of Facebook.
Don’t friend ANYONE you don’t know, and deny friend request if you don’t know them!
Don’t friend anyone you don’t know if you post anything to your Facebook that you wouldn’t post on a pubic or work bulletin board! You don’t really know who is on the other side of the profile.
If you don’t know the person, deny the friend request promptly! Unfortunately there is a bug in Facebook right now that allows people who request you as a friend to see your live feed while the friend request is pending. As of right now, there is not a privacy setting on the live feed. This is bound to change soon, but it is good measure to always deny friend request until you know that person.
Unless part of your job is using Facebook, don’t update your Facebook from work!
You don’t know who is really on the other side of your ‘Friends’, so unless part of your job is social media, don’t update your Facebook status from work. Wait for lunch, or after work. This is ESPECIALLY important if your organization doesn’t allow access to Facebook.
Until next time….